Friday, February 6, 2009

Jaded Valentine

Does jaded describe how you feel about Valentine’s Day? Perhaps you've had so many Valentine's Day celebrations that you've become rather jaded. Don't worry; you can still recapture that special feeling on this special day

Maybe you’ve allowed all the negative aspects of the economy to sour you on one of the most romantic days of the year. If you think having a special night out with a romantic dinner is a waste of time and money, then look in the mirror. That is the image of a jaded Valentine frowning back at you.

There is hope for you, however. You don’t have to stay in that sour state of mind and drag your poor Valentine down with you. Make a change. Start with the way you look. Treat yourself to a makeover. Buy a new dress. Get excited about life again and rediscover the romance of Valentine’s Day.

This is the perfect romantic day to infuse new romance into your love life. Don’t just sit at home and pout. Take control. While it’ll take a little effort, it could be the best Valentine’s gift you ever gave your sweetheart and of course, yourself.

Attitude makes a difference

It’s all about your attitude. You’ll need to change the way you think and the way you express your thoughts, but that’s easy if you get outside that dark cynical mood about love and romance. It's all about expectations. Most people are disappointed when things don't meet their expectations. Suspend your expectations this Valentine's Day and just go for the fun and romance.

One thing about negative thoughts is they love company. So refuse to give in to the tired old attitude that people are just going through the motions, because most of them aren’t when it comes to celebrating Valentine’s with their baby. People like to get dressed up and go out for a special dinner and evening of romance because it’s not something they do every day. That's what makes it a special time as a couple. You can rediscover that joy once more. It just takes a little attitude adjustment.

Your lover will certainly appreciate your efforts and who knows, you may even find yourself smiling and enjoying a very special romantic evening. Happy Valentine’s Day.


*For more info: Sally's books are Romantica™ fiction and can be purchased directly from her publisher




1 comment:

N.J.Walters said...

After twenty-five years together, hubby and I have had very romantic Valentine's--like the year he gave me Godiva chocolate and took me to see the movie Chocolat at the theatre--to very ordinary ones where we stayed home and just spent the evening together.

All of them were special because we were together. Over the years I've discovered it doesn't matter what we do, or don't do, to celebrate as long as we're together.