Thursday, January 22, 2009

Pure Romance - reality TV show


Mark your calendar for February 1 at 10 PM for a date with TLC's reality show about Pure Romance, Inc., the in-home party company of romantic intimate products. The title of the show is, Mother Knows Sex. Even if you've never attended a Pure Romance party, you'll certainly find this one hour show interesting. TLC plans to rerun the show three times in February (just in time for Valentine's Day).

Couples get ready to see inside the daily operations of this family business based in Cincinnati, Ohio. You'll follow founder, Patty Brisbane, as she reveals a few secrets of the largest women's owned business in Cincinnati. Founded in 1993, some of the products Pure Romance carries include Dust Me Pink, edible flavored dusting powder and also edible panties. The product line is vast and varied with intimate games for couples, vibrators and erotic gismos and gadgets to enhance your sex life.

This $80 million annual revenue company employs 95 Cincinnati residents. According to their website, a consultant holding only a couple of parties a week can earn over $1,000 a week. Another section breaks this figure down to your earning potential being between $300 - $600 per party.

Be sure to tune in on Sunday, February 1 and learn how Pure Romance can spark your love life.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Night Owl Romance

Hi Vixens,

Thanks for having us and I hope you all had a wonderful holiday.

All of us at Night Owl Romance are back in gear and pumping out great reviews.


You can check them all out by clicking here.


In the last month we also ended the 2008 Fall N.O.R. Awards.



Vixen Ciana Stone took third place in the Best Fantasy/Futuristic/Off World/Time-Travel Erotic Romance category with All in Time.


Congrats Ci!


Sierra Dafoe also took two awards in the Best Historical Erotic Romance category. She took second place with Immortal Lust and third place with His for the Taking.



Contrags Sierra.




If you like getting bookmarks make sure to check out our Bookmark Club. For a small fee that covers shipping and handeling you can get a set of bookmarks 4 times a year. It's just $5 a year to join and you can get introduced to some great authors and get wonderful bookmarks, excerpts and promo items in the mail.



Click here to join.



We also have a very cool WEB HUNT taking place. There are over 30 prizes to be had from author signed print books to ARC's and ebooks. You can find detail out by clicking here.



Night Owl Romance also will be attending the Romantic Times Convention in Orlando ... and bringing lots of prizes along with us. Make sure you find us for your prize. We will also be doing a basket in Club RT.



Thanks again for having us!



Tammie King & The Night Owl Ladies
http://www.nightowlromance.com/

Monday, January 19, 2009

New York the new Las Vegas?


When most people think destination wedding, their thoughts turn to Las Vegas or the Caribbean.

In a bold, media-attention move, New York's newly renovated Manhattan Marriage Bureau believes the new facility will allow it to compete with Las Vegas. The vision is to become the #1 wedding destinations and nudge Vegas aside.

Can New York pull this off? New York has Broadway shows for entertainment, great food, art, music, sightseeing... but can any city compete with Las Vegas and win?
In this gamble to bring more tourist revenue into the city, the bureau renovated its 24,000 square foot facility with a focus on being wedding friendly.

All that remains to be seen is if the brides and grooms will come to New York instead of Las Vegas.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Joy of Sex is back - vibrators and foursomes


If you missed it the first time around in the 1979, you can catch the new wave of the revised edition of "The Joy Of Sex". This was the book that helped bring the sexual revolution discussion out into the open.

So how has sex been revised? Well, it's been updated to reflect the modern view of sex and includes a section on STDs and of course, AIDS. Also added is a brief mention about the use of vibrators and helpful advice for multiple partners or foursomes.

The best-selling books had a face-lift with a new purple cover and pink pages.

You can read excerpts online

Friday, January 16, 2009

Never too old - 101 year old romance author


You may think you're too old to start a new career or seize your lifelong romantic dream, but with role models like romance author, Jean MacLeod, who celebrates her 101 birthday on January 20, you may just change your mind.

Mrs. MacLeod hasn't let age stop her from doing the thing she loves - writing romance books for Mills and Boon (Harlequin). It's reported that she is currently writing romance novel # 130.

This is one romance author who literally takes the cake when it comes to not letting age get in the way of living or in her case, writing about romance.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Taco Bell Wedding


It's true enough! In Normal, Illinois, a couple got married inside a Taco Bell but the fastfood restaurant didn't shut down for the ceremony.

Customers gawked as the ceremony took place. The couple, seated in a nearby booth, exchanged vows over the din of requests for value meals and extra hot sauce.

After the ceremony, the guests didn't have far to go for the reception food line.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Great web site -- does anyone visit it?

When you first publish as an author one of the very first things you'll hear is - do you have a web site? You have to have a web site. Chances are you have one before you make the first sale and you include a link in your email signature, in all your blog posts, etc. That's great. Maybe you spent a lot to get a site with kick-ass graphics and design. Maybe you're lucky and you can do a little HTML so you do your own. You update it, run a contest here and there.

But here's my question. Does anyone actually visit it? Besides those people on the loops you told about your contest? Can Susie reader easily find your web site while she's looking for good books when she's never heard of you before?

Okay, here's a little test. Go to Alexa.com (http://www.alexa.com) and click Traffic Rankings. In the left column, type in your site's address in the Lookup Website: field. Click go and in a couple of seconds, your traffic rank should appear on the right. What did you get? Keep in mind, the lower the number the better. If you got, for example, the rank of 2,000,000 that means your site is the 2 millionth most viewed web site on the net.

Now, stick that lower lip back in. That's actually not a bad rank considering that there are many many millions of web sites on the net. That's not bad at all. If you're not in the top 5 million or 10 million or you get "NO DATA," that's when you know you have a great web site but people aren't seeing it.

How could that be? You have a lovely site? You hold contests and announce them? Why should you worry about the ranking thing anyway?

The rankings come from data used gathered, and compiled by the search engines like Google, etc. Think about it, if someone has never heard of you before and they are on Google trying to look up good romance books to read, how will they find YOU? That's why ranking is important. The better your rank, the more people are finding you and you have it in your power to improve the odds that they will...

6 Things That Will Boost Traffic And Improve Your Traffic Ranking

1) Reliable, professional hosting. Painful truth #1 Search engines often will NOT index a site hosted on a free service. Why? Often spammers and scammers will try to peddle their wares on these free servers because they can get as many as they want with no cost and get rid of them just as easily if they are reported.

Get a good professional hosting service instead. Yes, there's a cost involved. But you can get a good account with little or no down time for your site and loads of features that you might find helpful. You probably need only a basic account that might cost no more than $5 per month. GoDaddy.com provides good hosting, so does HostGator.com, and Psyche Designs (http://psychedesigns.com -- shameless self promo! LOL)

Also, remember this. You can't really complain if your site goes down for a couple of days on a free service. You can on a paid account. AND no ads!

2) Site content and layout. If you have a site that for whatever reason takes forever to load or doesn't have a lot of information on it, what's the viewer's motivation to look around or even stay? The internet has given us all a mild case of ADD. Most of us don't want to wait for a site to load. If we have to wait longer than, on average, 3 seconds, we'll leave and look for something else. Your site should load fast, be easy to read and easy to navigate. The font should be a good size and easy on the eye. Simple fonts and colors work best. Scrolly fonts are hard to read and if you put bright yellow text on a sky blue background, you're going to give your visitor a splitting headache. LOL

Also, make sure you've got something of interest right on the main page. Yes, that introduction letter that you lovingly wrote for the front door page is nice, but chances are the person reached your site by looking for books. They don't want to read that nice intro letter and might leave thinking they stumbled onto a site that doesn't have good books. Sure you've got good books. Put them on the front page!

Make sure your links work. One more thing - take it easy on java script and flash. Some people are on older computers - believe it or not - and can't easily view flash. Aside from that when the search engine bots come to index your site, sometimes the java and flash, if enough is used, block the bots from indexing your site - not a good thing. So go lightly please.

3) Watch your statistics. Aka known as don't just look at your stats program to see how many hits you've gotten. That's not enough. Take a closer look. Most statistics programs used now have very detailed information about your visitors and that's the key to everything.

NOTE: If you don't have a good statistics program with your hosting account, you can use Google Analytics free and it's a powerful tool. See http://www.google.com for more information.

A good stats program should be able to tell you what pages your visitors are looking at and how often. Pay attention and try to discern why they like one page over another. Can you make the less popular pages more like the popular ones? You might also have search string information. What's that? That tells you what someone typed into a search engine to get your site in their search results. Like "romance books, romance novels, etc.," Make a note of that for #4

4) Learn what meta tags are and how to use them. Those meta tags are not just sitting up there at the top of your web code taking up space. They are very powerful tools to those who know how to use them. Using meta tags, you can control the title of your site in search engine results - like google, you can control what the description says, and you can use keywords to make your site more popular and increase your traffic through keywords. This is a loaded topic for another day. Maybe next month's blog?

5) Links, links, links. Painful truth #2 - The more links you have to your site, the more the search engines perceive your site to be popular. And by links I mean links TO your site. You can put links to 200 sites on your site, but that will only make those 200 sites more popular - not yours. You need links TO your site on other sites and the more, the better.

How do you get those? Exchange links with other writers, readers, or related sites. Join popular web rings. Make sure your publisher(s) link to author sites and if not, ask if this could happen. Be creative, there are many ways to boost links to your site over time.

Keep in mind if you exchange links with your BFF's today that your rank won't increase overnight. But it will over time. It just depends when the search engines next index your site. It could be in a couple of days, it could take a couple of weeks. And the search engines don't all show up to index your site at the same time.

Do all those blog and forum posts you've made help? On some search engines, like Yahoo, yes, all those posts you've made with your site address in the signature line might do you good. Google, however, pays them no attention.

6) Submit your site to search engines. Especially if you got a "NO DATA" rank. Submitting your site to the search engines will put your site in the search engine's queue to be indexed. The bots from the search engines will visit your site, store the information.

Is one time enough? No. You should regularly submit your site to as many major search engines as you can. There are some free services out there that let you do that and there are some for pay. Keep in mind that using a free search engine submission service that only submits your site to 8 engines is better than nothing. This shouldn't have to cost a lot of money and will result in a noticeable improvement in your site's rank.


There you have it. Maybe your first basic crash course in SEO aka search engine optimization. Take a look at your site, see what you can do better and do your homework on meta tags. If you have questions, let me know. Thanks for having me!

Tina

Tina Pavlik
The Romance Studio ~ the romance genre today
http://theromancestudio.com
Open now! Psyche Designs ~ http://psychedesigns.com

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Male sexual sweat - women's brains recognize


Below is the press release sent to me that I found very interesting. I hope you do too:

New study by Rice University psychologist finds women's brains recognize, encode smell of male sexual sweat

Rice University
Office of Public Affairs / News & Media Relations

News Release

HOUSTON -- (Jan. 8, 2009) -- A new Rice University study published in the Journal of Neuroscience found that socioemotional meanings, including sexual ones, are conveyed in human sweat.

Denise Chen, assistant professor of psychology at Rice, looked at how the brains of female volunteers processed and encoded the smell of sexual sweat from men. The results of the experiment indicated the brain recognizes chemosensory communication, including human sexual sweat.

Scientists have long known that animals use scent to communicate.

Chen's study represents an effort to expand knowledge of how humans’ sense of smell complement their more powerful senses of sight and hearing.

The experiment directly studied natural human sexual sweat using functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI). Nineteen healthy female subjects inhaled olfactory stimuli from four sources, one of which was sweat gathered from sexually aroused males.

The research showed that several parts of the brain are involved in processing the emotional value of the olfactory information. These include the right fusiform region, the right orbitofrontal cortex and the right hypothalamus.

"With the exception of the hypothalamus, neither the orbitofrontal cortex nor the fusiform region is considered to be associated with sexual motivation and behavior," Chen said. "Our results imply that the chemosensory information from natural human sexual sweat is encoded more holistically in the brain rather than specifically for its sexual quality."

Humans are evolved to respond to salient socioemotional information.

Distinctive neural mechanisms underlie the processing of emotions in facial and vocal expressions. The findings help explain the neural mechanism for human social chemosignals.

The understanding of human smell at the neural level is still at the beginning stage. The present work is the first fMRI study of human social chemosignals.

The research, co-authored by Chen and Wen Zhou, graduate student in the Psychology Department, appeared in the December 31 issue of Journal of Neuroscience.

The research was supported in part by the National Institutes of Health.


Who Knew?
Located in Houston, Rice University is consistently ranked one of America's best teaching and research universities. Known for its "unconventional wisdom," Rice is distinguished by its: size -- 3,001 undergraduates and 2,144 graduate students; selectivity --12 applicants for each place in the freshman class; resources -- an undergraduate student-to-faculty ratio of 5-to-1; sixth largest endowment per student among American private research universities; residential college system, which builds communities that are both close-knit and diverse; and collaborative culture, which crosses disciplines, integrates teaching and research, and intermingles undergraduate and graduate work.

Friday, January 2, 2009

New Year - Adventure and Discoveries



I love the week of New Year's because it gives me a chance to reflect not so much on the past year, but what's yet to come. I love standing on the threshold of possibilities and unknowns.

A entire year awaits me to discover so many things that I could never imagine. Perhaps this is why the holidays hold so much excitement. The magic of exploring another year is one of the great adventures. It's all out there in the future just waiting to unfold.

This is the same feeling I have each time I start to write a book. Being a by-the-seat-of-the-pants kind of writer, means my motivation for writing is simple - I want to know what's going to happen next. I can guarantee that if I were to know what was in store for a story and how it would end, I wouldn't write the book. What would be the point?

The fun part for me as a writer is equal to that as me as a reader. The unknown and the excitement of discovery all urge me to write more. Find out more.

So the day after New Year's Day, I find myself asking these questions as I finish writing a vampire book. What's going to happen next? How is it going to end? When I find the answers to these questions, I'll be typing The End. After all, it's about the adventure, not the final destination. May your new year be full of love, romance and adventure!